bagaimana kita bisa menilai yang terbaik?
Only God could know heart and people can only see the face.
How can we choose a good mate for us if we cannot see his/her heart?
We need for deep thought and, I think we try to solve while listening to this one
God was good!
So He is arranging for us detail criteria for choosing good soul mate:
- Consider the religion and her / his integrity in it. Make sure if she is come from the same religion as you are. If you are Christian, don't pick Buddhist woman, If you're Muslim don't take a Christian as your wife, Trust me you'll have a trouble soon or later. Because everything is in peace whenever live at their habit. Tiger won't make peace with sheep.
- See his / her property, because wealth is always better than suffer in poverty
- Appearance, better looking is best, but consider the comparison too! If you're too bad look (for example, so don't get offense) don't try to pick the woman as beautiful as Britney Spear. Because it would be hard to keep her in your home :)).
Now understanding the heart, Who knows?
In human body there is a bunch of blood if it good then good overall
If it is bad then the whole would be bad.
Which include in the “Overall” of it? That including appearance, speaking manner, the cloth and so on
This can create a benchmark so that we do not recklessly believe to any people.
Indeed well appearance doesn’t mean that he have good heart. But someone who has a good heart, his outside appearance will look good as consequence. His speech goodness, aurat (genital that should be covered by cloth) covered properly, etc.
The bunch blood of Muhammad the Apostles Hadith emphasis to us as his follower is to strict to ourselves. But could also be a standard for a simple assessment
A women used a mini-skirt, drinking in the nightclub, and then she told you
"Ne, Veil (jilbab) nowadays cannot be a standard, it is more important to have a good-hearted"
See? Is it mean that she have a good heart? Does not matter outer skirt?
Or no need cloth at all? He he …